This lecture is Episode 23 of Save Yourself Part 2 with English subtitle. #MuftiMenk Mentions that the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, there was something known as the great boycott that boycott was in the Makkan period when the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in Makkahtul Mukarrama and the Meccans decided that we want to blockade the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and all those who have accepted Islam, from surah Al Fath and Al-Hujurat ,start off mentioning #etiquette how to live your life, how to get along with people, how to have the best life by saving yourself.
In this lecture #MuftiMenk mentions the history of the Prophet Sulaiman ( #Solomon) who used to control all creatures of the Almighty by the grace of Almighty Allah (Swt) including #jinn kind and all of them were controlled under his authority. The Prophet #Sulaiman (A.s) was the youngest son of the Prophet #Dawud / #David (peace be upon him). The story of Queen #Sheba or #Bilqis, #angels, horses of Suleiman (As), difference between #miracles and #blackmagic, #ants, etc are narrated as well in this lecture. Despite his status and rank, Sulaiman AS was #humble, just and #compassionate, not just to the human race but to the most insignificant insect. In the story of The Ant of Sulaiman AS we saw how he diverted his entire army in order to avoid trampling an anthill.
#MuftiMenk highlights that Islam is a way of life. It does not have rules and regulations only connected to one aspect of living but in fact it includes every aspect of living. Islam teaches us to be who we are; your identity, you’re supposed to be a person what you see is what you get.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “He or she who is linked to his Maker definitely a better person to the rest of the creatures of the same Maker, remember that. So when we become horrible to those whom we live with, there is something wrong with our link with Allah”.
#MuftiMenk dedicates this live session to those who are #childless and they are trying to have children from a long long time and who lost their #child / children. He gives guidance how to cope with these two situations in terms of Islam.
Mufti Men quotes in this intagram live session “Let’s be sensitive; don’t pry into the people’s lives and say when are you having; when you don’t know the situation; they may not be able to conceive and we ask Allah (Swt) to ease the difficulty of those people and over and above that we ask Allah to bless them with offspring”.
In this lecture #MuftiMenk explains the benefits of forgiving in terms of Islam and how to #forgive and seek #forgiveness not holding grudges and bitterness in heart . He mentions when one forgives people, it develops his/ her piety and closeness to Allah and Allah loves it so much.
Mufti Menk cites in this lecture “Allah says- whoever forgives and makes amends, his or her reward is with Allah; he /she might not see the reward in the world; We will show them if we want some of the reward in the world either through better health, the improvement of the quality of your life by you forgiving others but sometimes it might not it may not; Allah says don’t worry We’ve kept in store for you something great, Allah says we will forgive you…..”from the Quran.
This lecture is episode 24 of Save Yourself Part 2 with English subtitle by #MuftiMenk. In this lecture, Mufti Menk makes mention of Surah Qaf (protection against bad things), Surah Adh-Dhariyat (the reason why Allah created us), Surah An-Najm ( Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam’s utterances are not from him but rather they are inspired by Allah) surah Al-Qamar (how the Qur’an easy to understand and to remember mentioned by Allah (swt), Ar-rahman (named after the mercy of Allah but that mercy of Allah will only come to those who recognize the favours of Allah), Al-Waqi’ah ( Allah makes mention of a few aspects in the surah, and He makes mention of His power and the day of judgment) and surah Al-Hadid ( it is a surah named after steel, iron and Allah speaks about how important it is to spend in his cause with belief)
#MuftiMenk enlightens the #rights of the #husband and #wife and the general #etiquettes of the #relationship from the Book “SEXUAL RELATIONS AND MARRIED LIFE” by Maulana Musa Karmadi. These rights help to eliminate disputes in #matrimonial home and enhance trust between a husband and a wife to lead a happy #marriage with utmost #love and #affection in this lecture.
Mufti Menk makes mention of “She must try to fit into the family rather than coming in and making everything change overnight for her sake. Though the wife is entitled to a certain degree of privacy, she must understand that whenever there are a few women who get together and several children then not everything will be done according to one’s desire and liking. There will have to be certain differences and certain things that one will disagree with totally. It is advised to bear patience and exercise tolerance employ the most affectionate effective ways of putting forward our views and points, this does not have to be done immediately but over a period of time using tact and intellect. It is easier to maintain a good relationship than to mend a broken one…”