Category: Marriage

Wow! Subhanallah! Your Toxic Husband In Jannah in Sha Allah! Mufti Menk

When you get something in the hereafter, it is said, even the people you’re going to meet, and you will recognize them because Allah allows you to recognize them. But the way they look will be superb and perfect.

The Hadith says, when you get to the other side, whatever you wish for, you will have.

Mend Your Relationship Before Death Arrives! Ustad Ali Hammdua | Pre-Ramadan Reminders

Reconcile between yourselves and your brothers and sisters and mend the relationships between you, please.

The recent event, the earthquake in Turkey and Syria, showed us that when death arrives in many instances, it doesn’t give anybody a heads up.

When death finally arrives, no amount of crying will ever quell the pain and the regret of an unresolved fallout between and the regret of an unresolved fall out between you and another Muslim.

*Allah Says, ‘Be fearful of Allah and mend the relationships between one another.’

Acknowledge your weakness and allow that to appear in your decisions, my brother, and realize, man was created weak. Man is so weak, and this recent event exposed that weakness.

*Because when death arrives, no opportunity will be given. And there you will realize as you cry, no amount of fame, no amount of money, no dispute, no fall out was worth the pain of an unresolved fall out between you and another Muslim.

You’re Looking Hot, Babe But Watch! Mufti Menk

Watch your tongue, Your tongue is important. Say good things. Come on, man. From your mouth, say nice things. The people you live with, tell them beautiful words. Let them smile. Let them blush also. Your own spouse,  let them blush.

People say that to the wrong people. Why can’t you say to the right person? Subhanallah

When Did Allah Say Your Son’s Wife Should Be Your Choice | Mufti Menk

Today, for some petty reasons, your father could tell you divorce your wife. What is right for you to do?

You need to ask yourself, is my father right or is my wife right?

Amazing verse in the Quran;

O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allāh, even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allāh is more worthy of both.1 So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allāh is ever, of what you do, Aware.  Quran- 4:135

How To Handle Politics Between Your Wife And Parents Especially Your Mother | Mufti Menk

Surah An-Nisa, which is obviously dedicated to the women. One thing that is clear in the Surah, Allah has repeated the issue of justice several times in the Surah.

May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala grant us an understanding that when we came, we brought nothing. When we are going to leave, we will leave with nothing besides our deeds.

Allah says, O you who believe, stand stead fast for justice, for the sake of Allah, whether it be against your own parents or your relatives, your children, whoever it may be, the rich or the poor.

You side with who is right. Your father, your mother, who is right?

The answer is when it comes to who is right. You’ve got to look at what the issue is.

That He Or She Doesn’t Exist In The Real World! Mufti Menk

Some of us finds it tough to get married. It’s true. It is a challenge. I’ve always said it was easier to marry when we knew less people.

Now, do you know why it’s difficult to get married?

Because we know too many people. You might laugh at me.

It’s a fact. You know too many. Your standards are up the roof. Go to paradise and you’ll still be looking for that person.

Don’t Worry! You Can Marry Her Or Him In Jannah In Sha Allah IF…. | Dr. Omar Suleiman

Allah (swt) says, from the signs of Allah that he created for you spouses from amongst yourselves, so that you could dwell with one another. So the dwelling of Adam (a.s) with Eve was the first part of it.

And then Allah put compassion and mercy and love between the spouses.

Now, this is very powerful and this is very important that The propeht (pbuh) said, No one is single in paradise

Lastly, something very beautiful, the Prophet (pbuh) said about spouses in Jannah, the messenger (pbuh), he said that their spouse is more beautiful than the last time they saw them.

And you would say to your wife that you’re even more beautiful than the last time I saw you. And she would say, subhanallah, and you’re even more handsome than the last time I saw you.

Meaning part of Jannah is that Allah (swt) makes the spouses perpetually more attractive, more beautiful, more loving, and so on and so forth.

The Main Key Secret To Have A Happy Marriage From Three Verses Of The Quran | Mufti Menk

As a human being, If you make a mistake, you make an error, a blunder or you do something perhaps that might not have been the best way of doing things, Quickly learn to apologise, learn to come forth and make amends; Learn to seek forgiveness not only from those whom you’ve wronged but from Allah (swt) primarily because you know I have to go back to my Lord, He made me. I’m going to answer to Him.

You’re getting married to someone and that person is the child of someone and they have a family and they have a loving family and they’ve been treated with kindness and goodness throughout their lives. Treat them in a similar, if not better way.

The tongue in marriage will make or break it.


Whoever follows Allah and His messenger has indeed succeeded the great success.

Your connection with Allah is closely related to how you address the rest of the creatures of the same Allah.

What Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) Said For Women On The Day Of Arafah | Mufti Menk

Prophet (pbuh) on the Day of Arafah, he said something amazing. He said everything that was of the period of ignorance. I’m putting it under my feet, it no longer is valid.

if we’re believers, here is the messenger (pbuh), on the Day of Arafah, saying, no racism or the period of ignorance, kick it out. Don’t maltreat women, the period of ignorance, kick it out. Don’t think you’re superior, the period of ignorance kick it out. Learn to respect people.

The prophet (pbuh) said, Fear Allah regarding your treatment of women. He says you married the women using the name of Allah, so fear Allah how you treat them.

Watch out, those women. You used the name of Allah, You used the name of Allah to take them, to marry them; treat them well.

Allah clearly tells us this in the surah known as Surah An-Nisa’ (The Women); Allah tells us to fear Allah and to fear the womb that gave birth to…..

And that’s why the Prophet (pbuh) says, the best from amongst you are those who are best to their wives.

This is the day where the women were empowered by Islam, subhanallah.