Tag: Islamic reminders

Why Divorce For Trivial Matters! Listen To Save The Next Person | Parents Reminders ~ Shaykh Hasan Ali

You know, you have to admire our father’s generation, grandfather’s Generations.  Despite Decades of them having marital problems they stay together till the end until death departed them.

20 year olds and 30 year olds getting married and then within two years within months…. They are ending the relationship for trivial matters, for small things. I said it one thing the reason why I feel this is happening is because this generation that we have now this generation is a lot about not facing difficulties from a young age.

So parents have also in the last 20, 25, 30, years not given difficulties to the children. …removed all difficulties, you know, made it really easy for them. by the time they have then they are getting the married after a few years, you know, they’re not prepared for life.

No one saying you know shout at children.. But at least you know, you can be firm with children, the firmness with children and if you if you’re showing strength with children, children if you show softness to children, children grow up to be soft. And that’s why too soft is get married they don’t know how to deal with life’s troubles and life’s chaos and problems and so on and therefore, the easiest of me ,just get divorced for the most trivial matters, for the most smallest things that have probably happened in their life. And they want divorce, they want out and our parents and grandparents they stayed in there all the way till the end.

You don’t know what how many problems you have. You’ve got to understand that it’s more important to try and you know get to the end. And keep to your vows and remember that you know, you took a vow in front of Allah Azawajal when you got married, it’s not a small thing.

Divorce is there’s an emergency exit and is needed by some people. Yes, we can definitely reduce the number of divorces if people were to, you know, take life more seriously. if they first  haven’t up bringing those more serious and if they then knew how to deal with life’s problems and their trivial matters and so on.

please get the message out, be more firm with children And at the same time be, you know, be people who are ready for marriage and who got a serious intention to stay together all the way to the end unless something major comes out. Don’t look at the emergency exits.

From The Age Of Three I Started Learning The Quran | Mufti Menk Exclusive

In this video clip #MuftiMenk reminisced his #childhood and he started learning #Quran at the age of three and his studies at #Madina munawwara with amazing incidents. In addition He said that he wouldn’t never ever forget his father’s efforts on him and Mufti Menk is following his father footsteps.

She Might Come With Better Ideas Than Yours | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk raised an very important issue regarding mutual discussion, support and assistance one’s #spouse at time of difficulty or on other matters in #conjugallife to firm #marriage knot. He gave importance to lend an to spouse by presenting example from the #prophetMuhammed(saw).

 

A powerful lecture on Making Nikkah (Marriage) Simple | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk urges to make #Nikkah (#Marriage) simple in the light of importance of Marraige as it is one of the simplest things in Islam. In Addition He tells that whoever makes it difficult he / her starts fight with #Allah. if a person would like to have fun in terms of the opposite sex the door is wide open for anyone and everyone; those who have abstained from it for the sake of Allah subhanahu wata’ala have converted that into a good deed an act of worship. The lecture on how to keep marriage was given simple during officiating a marriage.

Salah Is A Divine Gift Not A Burden | Mufti Menk

#Salah ( #Prayer) is a #divine gift from Allah (swt) not a #burden for a believer. #MuftiMenk pointed how to achieve broader #blessings from Salah in the light of spirituality and worldly life brilliantly in this video clip. He said #The consciousness of Salah it will help to become a better person when one talks with Allah from the beautiful words of the Quran how can one go out and swear, use filthy language, deceive others, tell a lie, etc.?

Two Things Make Worship Colourful And Dynamic From Boring

Shaykh Ali Hammuda makes mention of two thing s which are the intention and the compliance to the sunnah of the messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam make #worship colourful, dynamic and excited in the masjid and out of the masjid as everybody feels the need to have an identity and if you are living a life of Islamic purpose and there aren’t many who are sharing the same vision or upon the straight and narrow that you are upon then it becomes a little bit daunting and thus it seems to be #boring, backward, dark lonely .

“The intention and compliance to the #Sunnah of the messenger (Saw) if these two conditions are found in anything it is an act of worship in the in the eyes of Allah jalla jalaluhu”.- Ali Hammuda