#MuftiMenk explains the prime #etiquette of the #workplace for a believer and mentions a hadith where the prophet Muhammed sallallahu alaihi wasallam it very clear that the best from amongst you are those who have the best character and conduct with English subtitle.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “if you create this idea of respecting everyone and fulfil it; the day you are put into a lower position others will respect you as well”.
#MuftiMenk mentions what #virtues #male #spouse should have from the story of prophet #Moses (#Musa) regarding #marriage. These are – have a strong relationship with his #Maker (#Allah), #character&conduct, hard-working and having attitude of taking #responsibilities.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this clip “If you have married your daughter off to an honourable person who’s responsible he has character and conduct and he has a relationship with his Maker even if he doesn’t have all the glamorous things on earth; he’s going to look after her like a queen”.
In this clip #MuftiMenk mentions the verse of the greatest #hope in the entire Quran of Surat Az-Zumar where Allah speaks of #heaven and #hell #jannah and #Jahannam and Allah forgives every single sin. Indeed He is most forgiving most merciful, SubhanAllah.
Mufti Menk quotes in this video clip “we need to make sure that we don’t fall into that trap because that’s another extreme one hand; Shaitaan wants to make us lose hope; the other hand he wants to make us have too much of hope that we actually now think that we know it’s free for All, it’s okay, Allah’s okay, He’s fine”.
#MuftiMenk mentions that from the time of birth it is impossible to for us to exist on our own without the help of other #humanbeings; be it a parent a guardian a midwife or whoever else. It is when you are born you are automatically in need of a person another human being Muslim or non-Muslim whoever they were whoever Allah has chosen to help you to survive. So reach out to the people in a positive way and it is a sign that the person is very close to Allah is when they are humble and polite to other human beings.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “Closeness to Allah comes hand in hand with being good to people because they are the creatures of Allah just like you. They are part of your test you are here in this world”.
#MuftiMenk mentions we need to make a #dua that Allah grant us spouses and children who will be the #coolness of our eyes.we need to make the following dua on a constant basis. The reason is if you are not married, Allah will grant you a #spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes together with #righteousness and if you are married Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala can help improve your condition as well as the condition of your spouse through the same dua and #supplication. The dua is in the following:
وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا –
25:74 “Rab-ba-naa hab la-naa min ‘az-waa-ji-naa wa zur-ri-yaa-ti-naa qur-ra-ta ‘a`-yu-nin-waj-`al-naa lil-Mut-ta-qee-na ‘I-maa-maa.”
“Our Lord! Bestow on us from our #wives and our #offspring the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders of those who have #Taqwa.”
In this lecture #MuftiMenk highlights some key points from the #seerah (life) of Prophet Mohammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He mentions that if someone asks you what is the biggest gift? It is the fact that you have emaan and you are a follower of Muhammad (saw) the biggest favour. Hold on to it learn about it teach your children live by from the life of prophet Muhammed (saw). Regarding the love of rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam no Muslim, no Muslim on earth would not be loving Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam; no Muslim hates Rasulullah salallahu alaihe wasalam because they would not be Muslim if that was the case. But each one shows his #love in his own unique way and we should not belittle the way people show their love.
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “The most successful #parents are those who lead by example; the most successful parents are those who lead by example they practice what they preach how many of us are prepared to do that that is also a sunnah of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam”.
In this amazing lecture #MuftiMenk mentions how a #babygirl opens the door of #paradise for her #parents with special #blessings. we don’t realize the gifts of Allah Subhanahu WA Ta’ala because human nature is such that we concentrate on those things that we don’t have. This is what happens to #mankind, we tend to concentrate on what we don’t have and this is why we overlook what we actually do have they say you only realize the value of what you had after you lose it. It is a major sin is to become upset at the #gender of the child that you have been bestowed with especially if it is a #female why especially if it is a female because that is expressly mentioned in the Quran.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “ Prophet Mohammed (Pbuh) made it clear that #daughters are special very clear; he made it very clear that if you get upset when you are informed of the fact that Allah has bestowed you with a #gift of a #child being a female. Then you’ve engaged in a major #sin just by becoming upset, so be careful.
This lecture is Episode 21of Save yourself part 2. #MuftiMenk Mentions surah Al Mu’min known as Al Ghafir wheren angels make #dua (#supplication) for believers who have these two qualities; oh Allah give them the #Jannah and the #paradise that You have promised them. The two qualities are seeking forgiveness and following the path of Allah (swt). From Surah Ha Mim As Sajdah, also known as Surah Fussilat Mufti Menk hightlights to stay firm on the #Deen at any circumstances and from the surah Shu’ara important thing in our lives should be consulted with those who are qualified and who care for us. At last from Az-Zukhruf, whe should turn back to Allah being #humble and the #Shaitaan will depart from our life.
Mufti Menk Quotes “Trust me justice is justice and the best of justice is when it is served to the weakest of the lot in a way that they are made honorable in the eyes of those who have power and wealth and they begin to know that justice has absolutely no lines this is what Islam is”.
In this short clip #MuftiMenk talks about to the issue of the #dresscode. Judging someone based on beauty is pagan that is totally unacceptable. So Allah says in order to give you the honour We ask you to conceal your #beauty.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this clip “Islam has made it clear that your #complexion is chosen by Allah. There is no virtue of a person coming from Africa over the one who comes from Arabia and vice versa except by their closeness to Allah. So my #sisters my #daughters, you are too special to be bothered about things that Allah has chosen for you”.
In This lecture #MuftiMenk speaks about the #family issues which impact on #marriage and points out the guidelines from the Lord of the Worlds how to make a strong #relationship for a healthy marriage with view to building up a happy family unit. He adds that any marriage or the relationship within the family is based on respect. We know that we need to respect one another. It’s based on #tolerance; is based on the correct use of the #tongue.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “say words of #love when Allah says utter that which is upright, go out of your way to say the most beautiful things to your #spouse considering it an act of worship both ways husband to wife, #wife to #husband”.
The All-Loving 