Category: Marriage

Marriage, Mufti Menk

The Rights That Strengthen The Marital Bond

#MuftiMenk enlightens the #rights of the #husband and #wife and the general #etiquettes of the #relationship from the Book “SEXUAL RELATIONS AND MARRIED LIFE” by Maulana Musa Karmadi. These rights help to eliminate disputes in #matrimonial home and enhance trust between a husband and a wife to lead a happy #marriage with utmost #love and #affection in this lecture.

Mufti Menk makes mention of “She must try to fit into the family rather than coming in and making everything change overnight for her sake. Though the wife is entitled to a certain degree of privacy, she must understand that whenever there are a few women who get together and several children then not everything will be done according to one’s desire and liking. There will have to be certain differences and certain things that one will disagree with totally. It is advised to bear patience and exercise tolerance employ the most affectionate effective ways of putting forward our views and points, this does not have to be done immediately but over a period of time using tact and intellect. It is easier to maintain a good relationship than to mend a broken one…”

Family, Islam, Marriage, Mufti Menk, Ramadan

Build & Fix Your Relations With Your Spouse & Others In Ramadan

#MuftiMenk mentions that remove the hatred in your heart from others or of others #Ramadan is there to build relations (#spouse, family members ,neighbours, etc) to think about where you are and the building of a relationship requires both parties not just one.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “If we were true followers of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him we would learn something from the fact that as he ran down the first person- he embraced was this wife of his. How many of us when we feel that we need some form of reassurance we would go to our spouse…”

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk

Make Yourself Available With Moral Supports For Your Wife During Pregnancy & After | Mufti Menk

In this lecture #MuftiMenk describes how it is important to #acknowledge, #appreciate and give moral supports to one’s #wife during her #pregnancy or #labour and after giving birth of child to build the future #Ummah up by following the sunnah. Mufti adds that in our excitement we forget to thank Allah, we forget to call out to Allah. so make yourself available try and be there to give her that moral support most #women that’s all they want.

Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “But get married and you every single one of us will realise that there are differences that you need to adjust in order to be able to appreciate; you will never be able to lead a happy married life if you don’t adjust and that adjustment comes with a lot of humbleness.”

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk

How Will Your Spouse Look Like In Jannah!! Mufti Menk

In this video clip #MuftiMenk speaks about how your #spouse (wife) would be #jannah (paradise) at time of describing #hoor in jannah. He said your own spouse will be changing as per the sweetness of your eye at its liking.

Marriage, Mufti Menk, Sort- Reminders

Going Through Divorce More Than One & Failing To Get A Job Or Business!!

This motivational content is created from the lecture of Mufti Menk and Sheikh Tawfique Chowdhury regarding How to deal the situation when a calamity strikes like going through divorce more than one, keep failing to get a job or suffering loss in a business .

#MuftiMenk makes mention of when a problem happens it’s not the end of the world but even if it was the end of the world who would you return to to Allah. So you say Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un; what’s happening you are doing something wrong, don’t react in that way the what’s happening you are doing something wrong, don’t react in that way the reaction of giving up #hope is not part of the dictionary of a mumin. A believer does not give up hope.

Sheikh Tawfique Chowdhury gives a powerful speech on how tawakkul (the Islamic concept of reliance on God or “trusting in God’s plan”) makes a believer strong on the earth with taking action little bit beyond his/ her means when none is helping him / her in this duynia (the world).

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Save Your Marriage ┇Mufti Menk

In this Jummah (Friday’s sermon) lecture #MuftiMenk points out some crucial matters why #Marriage #breaks and he gives some practical tips to save marriage as remedies for uprooting the problems in marriages.

Marriage, Sort- Reminders

Oppression Will Be A Darkness On The Day Of Resurrection

In this lecture #MuftiMenk makes mention of the bad consequences of #oppression / #wrongdoings to others from the surah AL FURQAN in the Quran. He talks about two types of oppression / wrong doing: one is shirk which is associating a partner or rival to Allaah in Lordship (ruboobiyyah), worship or in His names and attributes and other one is doing wrong amongst each other. When ones does wrong to someone, he / she has to taste the result of that wrong either now or later on. He further mentions that the #darkness is on the day of judgement / Resurrection will only be a result of people having wronged others and an oppressor or a wrong doer will definitely face the darkness of his/ her action , he/ she will face the darkness of his /her deeds in the light of a Hadith.

Mufti Menk Quotes “Allah says -be careful of the duaa the one you have wronged, it will have far-reaching effects. when we see things go wrong in our lives inshaallah mostly it is a test from Allah; it is a test if that thing brought us closer to Allah, it was a blessing of Allah; your problem brought you closer to Allah it was definitely the test from Allah. But if it took you further away from Allah frustrated you and angered you and made you lose your sleep to the degree that your mind is being lost and you becoming angry and you can’t sleep and you can’t eat and you can’t drink then it’s the punishment of Allah.”

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Qualities Of A Loving Husband From The Best Person (ﷺ) Ever

In this Friday ‘s sermon (Jummah khutbah) #MuftiMenk makes mention of the Qualities which a Muslim man should implant in his character & conduct how to be a loving and the best #husband from the #marriage life of the prophet Muhammad (ﷺ)

“The Best of All Husbands”. The prophet Muhammed (ﷺ) Says that the best from amongst you are those whose character is the best. The best from amongst you are those who are more beneficial to the rest of mankind. The prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he treated his family with utmost respect, goodness and kindness. remember those words – Mufti Menk

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Stop Religious Blackmailing In Relationship “Be Fair”

To speak about how to resolve #problems in #relationship #MuftiMenk brings forward some points like selecting spouse before marriage, communication and the aim of husband and wife is the pleasure of Allah with view to achieving jannatul ferdous, automatically minimise the problems in relationship to understand the value of spouse.

“Religious blackmail to come up with something to tell their spouse well if you don’t do this you know Allah is gonna punish you and Allah is gonna do this and so when we talk of bringing Allah in the equation let’s be fair, let’s be very fair; you want Allah in the equation, Allah must be in the equation for both of us and we must be able to develop a relationship with Allah such that we realize who is this person and what is this relationship” – Mufti Menk

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Always Remember These To Achieve Barakah In Marriage

Highlighting contemporary issues some important points to achieve #barakah (Allah’s blessings) for settling down and success together with each other with view to building a long-term relationship in #marriage are reminded.

“The more difficult we make marriage the less Barakah there will be in our lives.if you want Barakah in your life have a simple wedding where Allah and His Rasul (ﷺ) are the main focus”. #MuftiMenk