Tag: Muslimah

Divorce Those Two Terms For Salah! Mufti Menk

Take your time in Sujood (prostration). Beautify your prayer, take time in Sujood. Don’t just rush, take your time. Allah, Lord of the world, it might be the last Sujud (prostration),

try not to use the word quickly and salah in the same sentence.

I’m not going to say I’m rushing, it might just be my last prayer.

How can I say even for a moment that let me quickly do my salah?

I want to do salah, I want to pray, oh, I want to fulfill my salah.

Never Ever Say It For The Ramadan! Mufti Menk

It is only if something is the most important event in the year or month in the year that we will be speaking in advance regarding the preparation of the month of Ramadan.

To prepare for the month of Ramadan, you need to start off by thinking about what it is, how blessed the month is.

Happiness and contentment is achieved primarily by understanding Allah’s plan. By understanding, you have to worship Allah alone. You have to build a relationship with the one whom you are going to go back to one day helplessly. Helplessly. I’m going to go back to Allah.

That’s what I want to say today, that your preparation for Ramadan is a commitment from now to say, I’ve started it.

When Did Allah Say Your Son’s Wife Should Be Your Choice | Mufti Menk

Today, for some petty reasons, your father could tell you divorce your wife. What is right for you to do?

You need to ask yourself, is my father right or is my wife right?

Amazing verse in the Quran;

O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allāh, even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allāh is more worthy of both.1 So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allāh is ever, of what you do, Aware.  Quran- 4:135

How To Handle Politics Between Your Wife And Parents Especially Your Mother | Mufti Menk

Surah An-Nisa, which is obviously dedicated to the women. One thing that is clear in the Surah, Allah has repeated the issue of justice several times in the Surah.

May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala grant us an understanding that when we came, we brought nothing. When we are going to leave, we will leave with nothing besides our deeds.

Allah says, O you who believe, stand stead fast for justice, for the sake of Allah, whether it be against your own parents or your relatives, your children, whoever it may be, the rich or the poor.

You side with who is right. Your father, your mother, who is right?

The answer is when it comes to who is right. You’ve got to look at what the issue is.

‘Two Scenes On Judgment Day’ The Answer Of A Negative Journey Of Doubt | Dr. Omar Suleiman

The Scene of the celebration and the scene of those who failed to stay on the straight path. May Allah make us amongst those who did not doubt, but who stayed the course and allow us to crush those whisperers.

when someone says, I’m not sure if this is all true. Maybe because inside you really don’t want it to be all true. I’m not sure. really true? Is it really true? Is this, this, this, that? Is this really there? Is this really there?

And it’s like, If I’m right and you’re wrong, then I’m going to be okay. And if you’re right and I’m wrong, then nothing’s going to happen to me.

But if you’re wrong and I’m right, you’re in trouble.

And of course, for us, we’re not playing probability here. We have certainty in it.

That He Or She Doesn’t Exist In The Real World! Mufti Menk

Some of us finds it tough to get married. It’s true. It is a challenge. I’ve always said it was easier to marry when we knew less people.

Now, do you know why it’s difficult to get married?

Because we know too many people. You might laugh at me.

It’s a fact. You know too many. Your standards are up the roof. Go to paradise and you’ll still be looking for that person.

Bury Hurtful Words Sometimes But Why | Ustadh Asim Khan

This one is about family and family matters and sacrifices that you need to make sometimes in order to keep your family together.

‘They said, “If he steals – a brother of his has stolen before.” But Joseph kept it within himself and did not reveal it to them. He said, “You are worse in position, and Allah is most knowing of what you describe.”’

Quran:12:77

Sometimes you need to tolerate people’s misbehavior for a bigger cause. You need to recognize that you are part of a bigger picture. You as a Muslim, are part of a bigger picture.

What you do affects other people and reflects on your family reflects on your community, reflects on the ummah itself. The consequence of knowing that is sometimes you got to take a hit yourself.

Sometimes your family will be mean, cruel to you. And if you react to try and get your right, you may be the cause of breaking up the whole family.

We’re saying that sometimes you may need to accept some wrong in your life. Not because you’re a doormat, because you’re a person who has a vision.

Go Easy On The People! Mufti Menk

When the same Nabi (Pbuh) of Allah is telling us, When the same Nabi (Pbuh) of Allah is telling us, Here we are mercilessly treating one another.

How quick are we to judge people? How quick are we to pass statements?

You don’t know what the person sitting next to you is going through.

If we had to write people off because of a sin they committed, we would all be written off without exception.

Tell Me More After Hearing The Verse Of Reflecting On Creation! Hashim & Atheist | Speakers Corner

We believe that we have something good and we like to share that. And for us, that is our faith, our religion, our love for God, and our love for you as a human being. That we want to see you with us in paradise after this life.

We will show them Our signs in the horizons and within themselves until it becomes clear to them that it is the truth. But is it not sufficient concerning your Lord that He is, over all things, a Witness? Verse (41:53)

Why Allah Tests Me A Bit More | Mufti Menk

When calamity strikes in your life and it has to strike at some point, the first thing a believer should do is connect to Allah.

Allah describes the believers and Allah says, those whom when calamity strikes, when difficulty and hardship befalls them, the first thing they say and they utter is ‘we belong to Allah and unto Him we shall all return.’

If you are content at calamity that struck you, inshallah, you’re a good person. But if you are struggling and you are really battling and it’s changed you in the negative way and it’s made you even worse, you have to look at yourself.

Ask yourself the first question have you ever harmed someone?