Tag: Marriage

Mufti Menk, Sort- Reminders

Spouse’s Mistake

#MuftiMenk makes mentions of as a believing #female or a believing #male when your #spouse has done something wrong (#mistake), you need to sit and seek Allah’s forgiveness to begin with. Both of you ask Allah’s forgiveness when He forgives you and your slate is clean you will be able to think properly and extend your hand if they show a speck of #remorse in this clip.

Mufti Menk quotes in this clip “With your own spouse someone whom you took into your relationship, the most intimate relationship that they could be with the name of Allah you took that person and you hold every droplet of what they did against them; you have a sickness of doubt against your husband, against your wife; every small call, every small movement, every movement of the eye, every time they leave the house; that’s it he’s committing sin, she’s committing sin if that’s your attitude trust me you never be able to lead a life; it’s not going to happen.”

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk

Make Yourself Available With Moral Supports For Your Wife During Pregnancy & After | Mufti Menk

In this lecture #MuftiMenk describes how it is important to #acknowledge, #appreciate and give moral supports to one’s #wife during her #pregnancy or #labour and after giving birth of child to build the future #Ummah up by following the sunnah. Mufti adds that in our excitement we forget to thank Allah, we forget to call out to Allah. so make yourself available try and be there to give her that moral support most #women that’s all they want.

Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “But get married and you every single one of us will realise that there are differences that you need to adjust in order to be able to appreciate; you will never be able to lead a happy married life if you don’t adjust and that adjustment comes with a lot of humbleness.”

Marriage, Mufti Menk, Sort- Reminders

Going Through Divorce More Than One & Failing To Get A Job Or Business!!

This motivational content is created from the lecture of Mufti Menk and Sheikh Tawfique Chowdhury regarding How to deal the situation when a calamity strikes like going through divorce more than one, keep failing to get a job or suffering loss in a business .

#MuftiMenk makes mention of when a problem happens it’s not the end of the world but even if it was the end of the world who would you return to to Allah. So you say Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un; what’s happening you are doing something wrong, don’t react in that way the what’s happening you are doing something wrong, don’t react in that way the reaction of giving up #hope is not part of the dictionary of a mumin. A believer does not give up hope.

Sheikh Tawfique Chowdhury gives a powerful speech on how tawakkul (the Islamic concept of reliance on God or “trusting in God’s plan”) makes a believer strong on the earth with taking action little bit beyond his/ her means when none is helping him / her in this duynia (the world).

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Save Your Marriage ┇Mufti Menk

In this Jummah (Friday’s sermon) lecture #MuftiMenk points out some crucial matters why #Marriage #breaks and he gives some practical tips to save marriage as remedies for uprooting the problems in marriages.

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Stop Religious Blackmailing In Relationship “Be Fair”

To speak about how to resolve #problems in #relationship #MuftiMenk brings forward some points like selecting spouse before marriage, communication and the aim of husband and wife is the pleasure of Allah with view to achieving jannatul ferdous, automatically minimise the problems in relationship to understand the value of spouse.

“Religious blackmail to come up with something to tell their spouse well if you don’t do this you know Allah is gonna punish you and Allah is gonna do this and so when we talk of bringing Allah in the equation let’s be fair, let’s be very fair; you want Allah in the equation, Allah must be in the equation for both of us and we must be able to develop a relationship with Allah such that we realize who is this person and what is this relationship” – Mufti Menk

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Always Remember These To Achieve Barakah In Marriage

Highlighting contemporary issues some important points to achieve #barakah (Allah’s blessings) for settling down and success together with each other with view to building a long-term relationship in #marriage are reminded.

“The more difficult we make marriage the less Barakah there will be in our lives.if you want Barakah in your life have a simple wedding where Allah and His Rasul (ﷺ) are the main focus”. #MuftiMenk