Category: Marriage

Marriage, Transforming Life

Small But Powerful Word for opening the closed doors in lives | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk highlights the benefiting of uttering a powerful word “#Astaghfirullah ” (seeking #forgiveness from #Allah) very often that is taught by Allah (swt) to open our closed doors (marriage problems, health problems, financial problems, wiping sins off, for beneficial rain from sky, taking to #paradise, etc) with #sabr and #patience in our lives . We need to soften our heart while seeking forgiveness for Allah (swt) and How to say Astaghfirullah. In addition, Mufti Menk mentioned The prophet Muhammed (Saw) used to say Astaghfirullah more than 70 times in a day although he was the best creature, the most noble #prophet of Allah prophets, sinless and spotless in video clip.

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Don’t Make Marriage Difficult Because of Mahr | MuftiMenk & Bilal Assad

In Islam we don’t sell our kids with a dowry and a bride price; there is no dowry or bride price there is only something known as a #Mahr which is a gift from the #groom to the #bride subhanAllah. Allah made #Nikkah(#marriage) simple in order to avoid Haram.

Both #MuftiMenk and #BilalAssad bring forward the matter that sometimes People make marriage hard because of Mahr so that Youngsters fall into Haram in this video. One definitely shares a portion of the sins if he/she is guilty; May Allah make it easy for us. Mufti Menk mentioned the famous Hadith of achieving Jannah (#paradise) for raising #daughter in Islam.

 

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Triple Talaq By Text Message Along With Important Issues Regarding Divorce | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk addresses how #talaq (#Divorce) takes place in Islam. He explains the ways of divorce, khula divorce (Lian or Mulaan), fasakh (ANNULMENT), #Nikah #Halala (the #marriage of a woman who was divorced by her husband to marry another man first in order to marry her previous husband again) #Iddah (waiting time), Issues related uttering #threetalaq in one setting, talaq by text message or #whatsapp, when woman gets right to divorce in Islam, etc very nicely in the video clip.

Islam, Islamic, Marriage, Transforming Life

The Way of Achieving Piety & Closeness To Allah | Mufti Menk | Eid-al-Adha 2017

In the Eid al-Adha lecture 2017 with English Subtitle #MuftiMenk addresses #Eid is a day of happiness and every single one of us is searching for happiness. We can achieve the true #happiness and the #contentment of our hearts by fulfilling instructions and obligations of Allah (swt) and towards his creature through improving & developing #character and #conduct, forgiving others to #forgiveness of Allah, starting good deeds from home, etc. He referred the Ibrahim (A.s) used to follow Allah’s instructions no matter what they were and how Allah (swt) elevated his status in Quran. So we should follow the spirit of Ibrahim (as)’s #sacrifice to succeed in the world and the next by elevating our status to Allah (swt).

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Your Spouse Is Your First Class Friend | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk highlights the difficulties which are being faced to lead a successful conjugal life in Muslim households now-a-days and how to overcome these obstacles in the light of the #Quran And #Sunnah in this lecture.

He says that #Marriage is very important it is something that everyone we’ll go through at one stage or another and He is speaking to you after lots of experience in helping so many people either getting married unfortunately breaking up as well or just through turbulence which is quite normal during marriage.

Mufti Menk mentioned the teachings from the conjugal life of the prophet Muhammed sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He pointed out #Respect, #Assistance and #Trust are extremely important to build a happy and contentment marriage with #character and #conduct inside and outside the home how we talk to people as well.

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Internal Spirituality For Selecting Spouse | Mufti Menk & Nouman Ali Khan

#MuftiMenk highlights how internal #spirituality plays a vital role to lead a happy conjugal life. He mentions some are not worried in regards to select spouse whether that person has #deen or not, #religion or no religion, good #character and #conduct or no good character and conduct. If you look at the outside #beauty, it goes away but the internal beauty develops with the #Wrinkles, but when it comes to external beauty of a person who has no internal beauty as they grow old, they become ugly. If we follow what the Prophet Muhammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has taught he says you want to marry you look at the religious level of the person you want to marry. Mufti Menk said that anyone Whose Role Model Is One Of The Two #Parents, Has A Far Greater Chance Of Success In This #Life Than Someone Whose #RoleModel Is Someone else.

#NoumanAlikhan reminds us how to approach to opposite sex regarding #marriage proposal in terms of Islam in this lecture.

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Is This Person Fit To Be Parent Of My Children ! Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk highlights three aspects of relationship of a family. One is the parent parent relation, the other is the parent-child relation and the third is the child child relation and how to improve among these relationships in this lecture.

Mufti Menk mentions that we have guidelines in Islam so much that is mentioned about how a person should be living. Every aspect of my life and your lives is covered in Islam and we are taught that a strong relation between the spouses will result in a positive upbringing of the children. He urges to marry someone decent to lead an exemplary life which helps to upbringings of children becomes easy. In addition, he says children should be treated equal and favouritism of one child is a very big crime totally prohibited completely Haram many people are guilty of it in #Islam.

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How To Balance Wife-Mother Relation | Mufti Menk with Bilal Assad & Nouman Ali khan

#MuftiMenk highlights that It is very important is to support your #spouse to stand by your spouse to be fair and just when it comes to your relation with #wife & #Mother in this video clip.

#BilalAssad points out that sister, take it easy on your husband and lessen the burden of him; try to tolerate as much as you can from the misbehaviour mistreatment of your in-laws. If you do that wallahi 90% of the time your husband will only grow to love you more. He will love you more because you are helping him; if he loves you more he will serve you better and he will protect you from them more. Bilal Assad mentioned above the quote in response to a sister’s question.

#NoumanAlikhan mentions that sisters you’re stuck with your husband; stop being angry accept it and try to love your husband try to make your #husband happy because believe me if he gets even a little bit happy you will be really happy. Then, Nouman Ali khan advises #husbands to appreciate and to say good words to their wivies for making a good family which will raise their status on the day of Judgement.

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Treat Women with Utmost Respect By Following Sunnah | Mufti Menk

In the lecture #MuftiMenk addresses that our beloved prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam has the greatest level of #character and #conduct and his behaviour is not just exemplary but it is absolutely perfect with Englsihs subtitle. In the light of that, Mufti Menk adds respect of a #woman to fulfil her rights, to honour her is not based on our whims and fancies it’s based on what Allah and His Messenger have declared belongs to her.

“Am I upon the sunnah of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam when it comes to addressing women? Do I think before I speak to them that I am about to utter words; these words are they harmful hurtful or are they the best of words? Allah has given us a tongue and He has given us a brain. We need to use the brain before we use the tongue.”- Mufti Menk

Family, Marriage

Love Is All About To Be Considerate Of The Other | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk mentions that when you say I love you to someone you are reconfirming the rights that they have over you and the fact that you will fulfil them in order to please Allah (swt). So, I love you; I love you too that’s not the answer of I love you not necessarily, it depends who is saying it when they are saying it why they are saying it how they are saying it. This is why those who really love one another they stick with one another even through difficult days they are a pillar of support in this lecture. Mufti Menk adds that #love is about #sacrifice when you say I love you to someone in essence, you are actually telling them I care for you to the degree that I will fulfil all your rights and I will look after you through thick and thin. May Allah (swt) grant us #happy homes.

Mufti Menk Quotes “Love is tested at the time of sacrifice when the person you claim to love is now going through the most difficult times of their lives; do you still stand by them, do you still look at their tears and wipe them off and say I love you that is far more genuine?”