Category: Marriage

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk

What Type Of Man Will Treat You As A Queen | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk mentions what #virtues #male #spouse should have from the story of prophet #Moses (#Musa) regarding #marriage. These are – have a strong relationship with his #Maker (#Allah), #character&conduct, hard-working and having attitude of taking #responsibilities.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this clip “If you have married your daughter off to an honourable person who’s responsible he has character and conduct and he has a relationship with his Maker even if he doesn’t have all the glamorous things on earth; he’s going to look after her like a queen”.

 

Marriage, Mufti Menk Ramadan 2017, Ramadan

Go Back To Factory Settings | Ep 20

#MuftiMenk urges to go back to factory settings through wiping all sins out because it’s #Ramadan you can return to factory settings by mentioning a very important dua (supplication). This lecture is episode number 20 of “Save Yourself Part 2”.

He mentions something beautiful about ibraheem alehissalaam the story of how he went to sacrifice his son. Ibrahim alayhi Salam every time Allah instructed him to do something it was so difficult even if it didn’t make sense for surah As-Saaffat. From surah Saad Mufti Menk talks about Dawood (As) how he established justice and from surah Az-Zumar, he brings up two groups of people, one group will go to heaven and another will go to hell.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “we try to help each other. I tell you why? We’re all drowning and we all need to save each other those who have been saved by the will of Allah; we will never regret but try to save other people while you’re saving yourself”.

Family, Marriage

A classic lecture on beautifying Marriage Life With English Subtitle | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk gives a classic lecture on #marriage where he explains the golden rules of marriage regarding selecting #spouse, increasing #love & #respect between #husband and #wife, supporting spouse when it is needed, helping each other at the crisis moment, reconciliation between wife and in laws especially mother in law and when spouses are together how it enhances the beauty of marriage, the beauty of spouses and the beauty of life. It will help to build up future generation with love and affection that the #Ummah needs greatly today. Mufti Menk also clears some misconceptions regarding women and #talaq (#divorce) by discussing elaborately in the light of the Quran and Hadith.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this legend lecture “People who are married for the right reasons and they have been married under the shade of Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala. Naturally, they will have a feeling towards their wives or husbands; they will feel they will feel very very protective and very possessive that is a natural feeling that Allah places automatically which was not there prior to the nikah or prior to the marriage”.

Marriage, Mufti Menk

Say The Most Beautiful Things To Your Spouse | Mufti Menk

In This lecture #MuftiMenk speaks about the #family issues which impact on #marriage and points out the guidelines from the Lord of the Worlds how to make a strong #relationship for a healthy marriage with view to building up a happy family unit. He adds that any marriage or the relationship within the family is based on respect. We know that we need to respect one another. It’s based on #tolerance; is based on the correct use of the #tongue.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “say words of #love when Allah says utter that which is upright, go out of your way to say the most beautiful things to your #spouse considering it an act of worship both ways husband to wife, #wife to #husband”.

Marriage, Mufti Menk, Transforming Life

Q & A On Love In 21st Century | Mufti Menk With Ail Dawah

In this questions and answers session Ali dawah asked some very crucial questions related with 21st century #love of #youth such as #marriage proposal from different nationality, force marriage, #halaldating, how to make haram relation to halal, etc to #MuftiMenk.

Mufti Menk mentioned that Allah made marriage very easy and Allah has facilitated it. It’s so simple righteous that only encourages only #Deen and Character & conduct to answer these Questions. Mufti Menk Quotes in this clip, “Your #heart is one of the most valuable organs; you know the heart and the #mind are the most powerful organs of the body. Do not allow anyone to control those two because they can hurt you very badly. It’s Allah, Allah will control; Allah decides”.

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk

Islamic Valentine’s Day | Mufti Menk & Others

In the video clip #MuftiMenk explains Valentine’s Day in the light of Islam. Other speakers discuss the history or origin of #valentinesday and how it impacts on our community as a whole.

Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “As a Muslim every day for me is the day of #love. I’m in love with who; with my #spouse with my family members. Every day I tell them so many times I love you, I message them. You know on whatsapp, you have a heart; you make use of it. Please to the right people not only one day in the year every day that’s your spouse at your family tell them how beautiful they are”.

Marriage, Mufti Menk, Transforming Life

Going Through A Divorce Or Lost A Love One | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk points in this clip how to get rid of #difficulty or #hardship when someone goes through a #divorce or lost a love one; to survive that type of a hardship get on with life get up and move forget about that that was a dirty episode a bad episode. He also mentions #dua (#supplication) in time of calamity to get help from Allah by replacing with something better.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this clip “Once you say o Allah You took my child away or you took my leg away or you took something away from me or You did this to me o Allah but I surrendered to Your degree and help me to be patient, help me overcome it, replace it for me with something better referring to the dua of the prophet Muhammed (Saw)”.

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk

The Seed Of A Blessed Marriage | Mufti Menk

In this lecture #MuftiMenk explains the fiqh of courtship and #marriage.We know that character conduct and deen, the deen meaning the level of religion; the level of character; the level of conduct etc; the level of responsibility is also included in that person is responsible with great character and conduct and they know their duty unto Allah because of that responsibility mashallah they are fit to be married but you need to look at them.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “You don’t have to have a huge engagement whereby you know people are getting bank loans and borrowing because they want to compete with the who’s who in order to show the world that we’ve had a very big engagement; no, those that waste wealth; they are void of Baraka; they’re void of blessings. What is an engagement in Islam- at the point where both the boy and the girl are happy the parents announced that inshallah we have now set a date of Nika. Don’t let that date be two years from now because in those two years Shaitaan will come and spoil the sowing be sown of the seed in a halal way by making it be sown in a Haram way”.

Family, Marriage

The Beauty Of Speaking & Saying Things In Relationships | Mufti Menk

In this lecture #MuftiMenk give importance on key points like communication, way of saying and know how to let it go through adjusting with situation in order to build in #relationship along with mentioning the virtues of selecting #spouse for a happy #marriage.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “we end up complaining about people and we promise that we don’t want to be like them and we end up becoming worse than them without realizing it because we’re pointing fingers not knowing that the way to change is actually to begin with yourself”.

Family, Marriage, Mufti Menk, Transforming Life

Dare To Ask On Marriage & Relationships | Mufti Menk

In this video #MuftiMenk was asked on the questions of #marriage and #relationships regarding selecting #spouse, how to propose halal way, convincing and involving #parents to know opposite sex before donating heart mind to someone, rules and regulations of Nikkah (marriage) and talaq (#divorce), secret marriage in Islam, etc.

Mufti Menk answered these questions in terms of Islam and current prevailing circumstances.