#MuftiMenk mentions the key elements how to form a good #relationship in a #family in this lecture with English Subtitle. He said that the most important people in your life are your parents . We need to respect our #parents because if we respect our parents we will be able to fulfil the plan of Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala here on earth.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “The parents should be the friends of the children; well technically yes they should be a friendship but there must be a little line where they know that’s my father that’s my mother there has to be a little line.”
#MuftiMenk points that it is the time when we should be displaying the true characteristics of a Muslim but how are we going to do that if we don’t know what it is that we’re supposed to be following- so while we are supposed to be navigating through these times we must realize and understand that without #knowledge we will never be able to practice true Islam to hold identity during the testing time changing world in this lecture.
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “Knowledge comes with softening if it is sound and if it is received with a sincere heart with a heart that is conscious of Allah subhanahu wata’ala.”
#MuftiMenk mentions that we go through so much of difficulty and #hardship in lives and we think to ourselves when this is going to end & how long I am going to continue struggling in this way. He encourages and motivates us by making mentions of several verses of the Qurans and incidents from the lives of the prophets ( peace be upon them) to have hope in the mercy of Allah and His help is very near for us in this lecture .
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “Never lose your identity be proud of who you are.”
#MuftiMenk delivers a beautiful lecture on #hardships in our life. He mentions that child has come into this world for two missions: the first mission is a test for the parents and the second is the test for the child itself beyond the certain age. The world out there is not fair but Allah is fair; how fair is Allah Allah subhana wa taala makes a human being such that he or she can adapt to many situations .
“Don’t become depressed that your test because your test is considered a gift for other people in their real life.” –Mufti Menk
#MuftiMenk mentions that thank Allah no matter what it is. That’s why on the day of judgement those going to #Jannah (#paradise) one of the categories a caller will call they will be granted jannah who where are those who used to praise Allah at times of ease and the times of goodness they used to say Alhamdulillah; come We want to give you Jannah imagine Allah is telling you.
So if something negative happens say- الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ عَلَى كُلِّ حَالٍ Alhamdulillah ‘alaa kuli haal I praise Allah all conditions and أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ عَذَابِ النَّارِ a’udhu bika min ‘adhabin-nar only i seek Allah’s protection from the condition of those who are in the fire the people of the fire.
In this lecture #MuftiMenk explains why we have to go through #hardships in our life. He mentions different types of hardship such as natural calamities, financial #difficulties, etc. And gives some important tips how to survive during hardships and alleviate these in light of Islam. Mufti Menk adds that the difficulties we go through the #hardship, we face get close to Allah; pray to Allah pray for others. Look at those who are worse than you; never look at those above you because that itself is a hardship you won’t survive.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture “It’s not Allah who actually did anything wrong to you not at all. It is you and your perception and the fact that you’ve allowed the world to have an impact on your thinking that you now think being short is a problem you now think being dark is a problem, etc”.
In this video clip #MuftiMenk addresses #childless #parents who are going through #hardship for not being bestowed upon child by the almighty Allah.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this clip “you’re married one year two years three years five years ten years; we still don’t have children. Allah has a reason believing that Allah’s reason is bigger than whatever you can imagine He is favoring you He is favoring you….”.