#MuftiMenk mentions that we go through so much of difficulty and #hardship in lives and we think to ourselves when this is going to end & how long I am going to continue struggling in this way. He encourages and motivates us by making mentions of several verses of the Qurans and incidents from the lives of the prophets ( peace be upon them) to have hope in the mercy of Allah and His help is very near for us in this lecture .
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “Never lose your identity be proud of who you are.”
This lecture is taken from save yourself part 2 of Episode 19 where #Muftimenk mentions i
important guidance from the various surahs of the holy Quran with English subtitle.
Surat Al-Ahzab: we are answerable; we are responsible; we will pay for how we have chosen therefore, choose wisely along with the verse of #hijab, controlling #tongue.
Surah Sheba: we need to be grateful for the gifts which are bestowed upon us from the mercy of Allah.
Surah Fatir: The promise of Allah is for those who do good and worship Him alone they will get goodness and those who transgress they have only themselves to blame. So we are desperately in need of Allah.
Surat Yaseen: how our organs will bear witness against or for our deeds on the day of judgement. So, we have to save ourselves from this by ensuring that we seek the #forgiveness of Allah.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “We will never lose anything by developing a relationship with Allah; Praise Him say words that are declaring His praise while you are walking while you are driving right now while you were sitting say subhanAllah, Alhamdulillah and Allahu akbar”.
n this video clip both #MuftiMenk and Dr. Muhammad Salah say how to send salutations and blessings to the prophet Muhammed sallallahu alaihi wasallam and the two benefits for doing that. They discussed the following hadith.
Ubayy ibn Ka‘b (ra) said: I said: O Messenger of Allah, I send a great deal of blessings upon you; how much of my du‘aa’ should be sending blessings upon you? He said: “Whatever you wish.” I said: One quarter? He said: “Whatever you wish, and if you do more, that will be better.” I said: One half? He said: “Whatever you wish and if you do more, that will be better.” I said: Two thirds? He said: “Whatever you wish and if you do more, that will be better.” I said: I will make all of my du‘aa’ for you. He said: “Then your concerns will be taken care of and your sins will be forgiven.” Narrator: Ubayy ibn Ka‘b; Status of the hadith: hasan; Muhaddith: Ibn Hajar al-‘Asqallaani; Source: Muwaafaqat al-Khabr al-Khabr, p. 340/2, hadith no. 71475
#MuftiMenk raises a few points which lead to break up homes eventually and develop a healthy #relationship between husband and wife from the book “The Sexual Relations And Married Life” written by one great scholar in London Moulana Moosa Karmadi.
In this book there is a section on the #rights between or the rights of the #husband and the rights of the #wife to rectify our problems in a polite and good manner. Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “You want to ensure that the ummah is in one piece; you make sure that you are in one piece with your family; you make sure that you solve your problems”.
#MuftiMenk explains what Islam says about friendship and how to select a true friend in the light of the Quran and hadith with English subtitle. He adds that myself and yourselves we have a certain level of #spirituality that level of spirituality is governed by those around us.
Mufti Menk Quote in this lecture, “If you stay in the company of someone and you make sure that your friends are those who are good; who have a good scent when I say good scent, I’m not talking of hugo boss and all those smells no; we are talking about a spiritual flavor to the life of an individual -they are truthful they are honest. They are free from drugs free and from alcohol inshallah you will find yourself naturally -you will find yourself very uncomfortable even when you want to light a cigarette- none of them smoke that is the power of company”.
#MuftiMenk mentions the lessons from the life of Sa`d ibn Abi Waqqas radiallahu ana who was one of the ten and the seventh Muslim at early stage given news of #paradise by Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in one gathering. This lecture was given ay Light Upon Light Conference in December, 2017.
Mufti Menk also mentions from the quotes of Sa`d ibn Abi Waqqas (ra) “Three things! I always ensure are clean my tongue, my heart and my wealth. I make sure they’re clean. With my tongue I never abuse, I never say anything, I constantly remember Allah, I use good words and I make sure that I don’t hurt people with my tongue. With my heart I make sure that I don’t have malice and hatred for anyone, no jealousy for anyone and my wealth I make sure it is absolutely clean and pure never pinching never stealing never usurping never deceiving anything at all; whatever came Alhamdulillah through hard work and sweat”.
In this lecture #MuftiMenk mentions the lessons from #Ali ibn Abi Talib (Ra) who was known as Kitab ul Wahi that was an honor given to him Ali ibn Abi Talib (ra) -one of the ten who were told you are from #paradise and he is a person who loves Allah and Allah loves him in return that’s confirmed by the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. Ali ibn Abi Talib (Ra) was the first from among the boys, the young boys those who had not yet attained puberty to actually accept Islam. This lecture was given at Light Upon Light Conference in December, 2017.
Mufti Menk Quote in this lecture “If people try to create disunity amongst you and hatred amongst you; don’t allow that to happen; do not allow that to happen when people spew hate don’t let it filter into your heart; no we should never be tasting wrath from one another but rather when you see a fellow believer you should feel so good ; you should feel calm ; you should feel that I have a brother I have a sister and in order to feel that feeling you should give it to others as well”.
Mufti Menk said “where is the sense of #justice; where is your courtesy, your #humility, your #honesty, your #humbleness, where is it gone? Oh #ummah of Muhammed peace be upon him these are the men whom he built what about us? Wouldn’t we like to be the true ambassadors; don’t you want to be one of those who are going to paradise; well those were the qualities of those who were told you are from #paradise. At last, He calls for unity to end the lecture .
Yasir Qadhi illustrates here what is the primary need that a woman wants from her husband in #marriage; primary emotion that is the continual #love and the continual enveloping of that attention that the husband always makes his wife priority? The #husband always shows his #wife that I’m thinking about you; I’m caring about you; I will always love you to feel that love to feel enrichment they need to be constantly reassured that their husbands love them.
Yasir Qadhi quotes, “you make her feel like she’s number one; guess what she’ll make you feel like you’re number one”.
On the other hand #MuftiMenk mentions that many men could not be bothered to fulfill the #conjugal#rights of their own #spouse. When men sometimes think that’s it it’s me I’m only worried about me me, me and me you know, no way not at all it is about us it is about a #family unit.
Mufti Menk quote in this video clip, “A family unit is made up by more than one person otherwise it’s not called a family unit. A marriage is made up by more than one person otherwise it’s not called marriage”.
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