Category: Transforming Life

Learn To Remove The Hatred From Within The Heart | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk addresses that currently we are facing many challenges in the #Ummah, the greatest of which is the hatred that we have for one another. This is in contradiction to the teachings of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Our duty is to spread #deen and #goodness to the entire #humanity as a whole.

Mufti Menk said that #Eman starts off by saying the #Shahada and then by believing it in your heart and showing it with all your organs you know working towards it. if you just claim it and you are moving in a different direction all together then what is the point? So we need to learn to love one another. He further adds that #Leadership is when you are able to bring people together when you are able to make people understand that the commonalities are far more than the little differences while he was addressing the youth about leadership in this lecture.

How To Get The Real Taste Of Happiness Removing Depression | Mufti Menk

In this lecture #MuftiMenk highlights the root causes of #depression in the #materialistic #society and how #spirituality that devoting to the religious teachings only can remove depression by bringing happiness & #serenity in our lives. He also says that the #religion we follow Islam is a way of life. It does not have rules and regulations only connected to one aspect of living but in fact it includes every aspect of living and if we were to live according to Islam we would actually be very happy people.

Mufti Menk Quoted “Many of us are searching for #happiness, many of us are searching for contentment; #Contentment lies in adopting what the Almighty says we should be adopting; never be #selfish when we are selfish we cannot be content. Happiness lies in making others happy.”

 

Knowledge & Sincerity For The Pleasure Of Allah | Mufti Menk

In this lecture #MuftiMenk highlights how to achieve the pleasure of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala. He says that we have to acquire #knowledge and #character & #conduct with #spirituality through #sincerity to earn the pleasure of Allah (swt).In addition, he mentions the hadith of the prophet Mohammad (saw) “Whosoever treads a path going to seek #knowledge, Allah makes the person’s path to #Paradise quite simple & quite easy.

Mufti Menk Quotes: “if we want to earn the pleasure of Allah subhanahu wata’ala we need knowledge; we need to know what sincerity is and you need to sincerely know what sincerity is. If we are sincerely searching for the method of sincerity, we will be able to be sincere correctly because sincerity with knowledge is true sincerity. But when someone is sincere with no knowledge they may not be able to be sincere.”

 

When & How To Ask Allah’s Guidance (Istikhara) To Make A Decision | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk highlights when, how, who and for what we need to do istikhara in light of Quran and hadith in this lecture with English subtitle. In life, we need to make some big decisions; sometimes we’ve all had decisions whereby we don’t really know exactly which way to go whether it’s #marriage– sometimes we don’t know if it’s going to be successful sometimes it’s a decision of a huge business sometimes shifting from one area or city to another, etc. Two main things one is known as consultation and two is Istikharah. Istikhara is a type of consultation but it means to seek guidance regarding the better of two issues to seek from Allah (swt) ‘s guidance as to which of these two things is better. That’s the meaning of #istikhara to ask Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala’s guidance where we are confused and we are trying to say o Allah guide us towards one of the two.

“if we have the consciousness of Allah in us Allah will guide us regarding all our affairs to what is best for us not necessarily to what is most successful in terms of business or our social life but it will be best for us.”- Mufti Menk

What The Beautiful Benefits Of Istighfar !!! Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk highlights the beautiful benefits of #Istighfar (the act of seeking forgiveness from Allah) in this lecture. He says that Allah Subhanahu WA Ta’ala has kept certain duties on our shoulders that we need to fulfil these. One thing that is of extreme importance that He has found very beneficial in his own life and obviously derived straight from the Sunnah of Rasulullah (saw) that is to ask Allah’s forgiveness genuinely every single day. Do not let a day pass without asking Allah’s #forgiveness.

Mufti Menk urges not to reduce istighfar to a mere service by the mouth. It should be genuine. We should feel it in our heart – oh Allah forgive me. “Seeking forgiveness is such a great act of worship and even if you have not done anything wrong just by mere virtue of asking Allah’s forgiveness your status is being elevated; it’s being elevated you get closer to Allah (swt).”- Mufti Menk

 

An Interaction Lecture On Youth’s Challenges | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk delivered an interactive lecture on how to deal #challenges of #youth. MuftiMenk mentions that In order to achieve the blessings of the Almighty we need to lead a #life that would call on these #blessings; we have to lead a life of purity. When we want these blessings we need to be on the right page with the Almighty and there will be thousands of challenges. That’s the reason of life when we are believers we actually believe there is a purpose to our life and that is to be able to please the Almighty in this lecture.

Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “We take faith very seriously even if we’re weak in certain aspects. It doesn’t make us people who are written off because we are weak in certain aspects but we have strengths. I want you all to be able to help one another by identifying each other’s strengths, appreciating them in a way that we can build on them and not lose them and be able to eradicate eliminate or work on our weaknesses so that as time passes we become the best of human beings”

Have Theses Answers To Succeed In Exams of Dunya & Akhirah | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk highlights that the #examination of #life is not just a one-off exam that happens in the month of December nor is it one week episode which occurs perhaps during the middle of the year. But it requires an entire lifetime of fulfilment; every time something comes in your direction that appears to be a test. Remember, Allah is watching you the way you react every time- you feel lazy to get up for #Salah; remember that is the examination Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala is watching and that is what He has planned and tailor-made so that we can earn our #paradise in this lecture.

Mufti Menk add that whoever works hard shall reap the fruit of their work. We need to know this it is not befitting for a #Muslim not to work hard through the year and suddenly when the exams come up he makes dua to Allah ya Allah grant me #success but where were you?

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “Remember that failure in this life does not necessarily mean failure in the life after death. You may fail an examination in this university of yours that is not the end of the world. Perhaps you may be able to repeat; perhaps you may be able to come up with better results. So never let you failure cause depression in terms of this worldly exam but if the failure of the Akira is imminent and if we have forgotten the success of the life after death then indeed we ought to be depressed. May Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala forgive us.”

Appreciate The Difference_Acknowledge It | Mufti Menk

#MufiMenk starts off saying that have you ever thought about why Allah Subhanahu WA Ta’ala has created so many creatures besides #mankind in Nairobi, Kenya 2017 ? Mufti Menk highlights that everything that Allah has made, they will ponder deeply over it in order to recognize the greatness of Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala in order to understand the plan of Allah for us. If you don’t know the plan of Allah you will never understand your #purpose on #earth you need to ask yourself and think. He mentions some important points how to build bridges by mending our #relationship with other that all the creatures of Allah (swt).

Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “you will never ever be able to understand what is your purpose on earth and you will not be able to understand how to respect differences; if you don’t know the beauty of the difference not starting with human beings but before humankind came unto the earth.”

How To Control Anger From A Religious Perspective | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk gives some pieces of #advice how to control #anger that come to us from a religious perspective in this lecture with English subtitle. They are definitely sourced in the knowledge of Allah subhanahu wata’ala given to us through Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

Mufti Menk urges that dua alone without making an effort is an insult after learning these pieces of advice. Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “Different people have different temperaments. They have different points of boiling and some people they’ll get angry after a long time and in two minutes they back cool as a cucumber once again; my brothers and sisters without working hard on forcing yourself to extinguish your anger you are not going to be able to help yourself.”

Practical Steps To Change Life Holistically Day By Day | Mufti Menk

#MuftiMenk addresses that every one of us wants to improve ourselves. We want to change for the Better, don’t we? There are two main ways of changing. One is to change instantly and another one is to turn gently change one by one things in your life and improve yourself as the days pass. You will see the difference in your life #contentment #happiness & #goodness having realised the consciousness of Allah and following the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammed sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

Mufti Menk further mentions that you get up early, you pray you thank Allah, thank You Almighty, thank the Giver of life and set yourself some limits see how you treat other people. When you start thanking people for the meal they’ve made for you, you will definitely become a better person when you thank people for the little goodness they’ve done for you look into their eyes in the lecture with English subtitle.

Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “Remember, change is not just an outward physical change. It’s got to do with your life changing. You need to become an asset in your home; a better person a young man or woman whom in the home when you’re not there they really miss you; they really miss you that is when you’re a good Muslim you’ve changed your life and you are an asset.”