#MuftiMenk gives some pieces of #advice how to control #anger that come to us from a religious perspective in this lecture with English subtitle. They are definitely sourced in the knowledge of Allah subhanahu wata’ala given to us through Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
Mufti Menk urges that dua alone without making an effort is an insult after learning these pieces of advice. Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture “Different people have different temperaments. They have different points of boiling and some people they’ll get angry after a long time and in two minutes they back cool as a cucumber once again; my brothers and sisters without working hard on forcing yourself to extinguish your anger you are not going to be able to help yourself.”
#MuftiMenk addresses that we have been created very differently by Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala. No two human beings are the same when it comes to your features, when it comes to your identity, when it comes to your fingerprint, when it comes to the iris that you have every single one of us is very different. So Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala says We’ve made you differently so that you appreciate each other; so that you acknowledge each other ;so that you earn a reward by living together and by understanding that the plan of Allah is for you to live together even though you are different in this lecture.
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “If you want to live together watch your mouth; don’t be vulgar, never be vulgar Subhan Allah, always be respectful. People have paid heavy prices for the way they used their mouths- heavy price .May Allah Subhanahu WA Ta’ala protect us.”
#MuftiMenk addresses that every one of us wants to improve ourselves. We want to change for the Better, don’t we? There are two main ways of changing. One is to change instantly and another one is to turn gently change one by one things in your life and improve yourself as the days pass. You will see the difference in your life #contentment#happiness & #goodness having realised the consciousness of Allah and following the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammed sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
Mufti Menk further mentions that you get up early, you pray you thank Allah, thank You Almighty, thank the Giver of life and set yourself some limits see how you treat other people. When you start thanking people for the meal they’ve made for you, you will definitely become a better person when you thank people for the little goodness they’ve done for you look into their eyes in the lecture with English subtitle.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “Remember, change is not just an outward physical change. It’s got to do with your life changing. You need to become an asset in your home; a better person a young man or woman whom in the home when you’re not there they really miss you; they really miss you that is when you’re a good Muslim you’ve changed your life and you are an asset.”
In this lecture #MuftiMenk describes the #Jannah (#paradise) in the light of the holy Quran and various narrations from the hadiths of our beloved prophet Muhammed sallallahu alaihi wasallam that is completely mind-blowing Allahu Akbar with English subtitle. Mufti Menk mentions that this #Deen is a gift that Allah has bestowed upon us; ask yourself why life is so short.
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “The mercy of Allah is what will drive me and you to paradise; our deeds can do nothing; our deeds can only call on the mercy of Allah when we’re trying hard we are calling on the mercy of Allah.”
#MuftiMenk highlights the key issues how to make a fortunate Muslim family in this lecture with English subtitle. Mufti Menk points out various topics like selecting good #spouse, appreciating and acknowledging your spouse’s efforts, spending time with family, tips for raise #children, sovling family issues when these arise, improving parent-children relationship, etc. He mentions Islam’s solutions to the fragmented #family and in Islam we do not break a home unless it’s a last resort.
Mufti Menk Quotes in the lecture, “We need to realize that I don’t have much time in this world not much time .So, in that short time let me prepare the future generation and let me lead by example and let me continue in life in such a way that when I am gone those who have left behind those whom I have left behind will remember me for the goodness that I have brought forth and not for the evil. A successful mother or father is the one who has nurtured the children in a beautiful way leading by example in Islam.”
In this lecture #MuftiMenk speaks in details how the #satan (Iblis) became cursed because of his arrogance and pride and his promise to misguide humankind and jinn kind who are made for doing worship of Allah (Swt). Mufti Menk points out important lessons and the teachings of Prophet Muhammed (saw) how to protect ourselves from the #devil (#Iblis) with English subtitle. The first lesson we learned from this is pride is one of the crimes of the devil himself arrogance and haughtiness is a crime of the devil himself. It’s a major sin.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “May Allah (swt) protect us from the devil; really it is something serious we need to look into our lives how the devil comes to us. Sometimes, it’s just the thought of pride or a thought that someone else is a bad person that thought itself is already the first clutch of Shaitaan to us. No matter how much Salah we are reading may Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala still protect us from the devil in every single way and grant us inshaallah every form of goodness.”
n this video clip, #MuftiMenk explains the ruling on #engagement in light of the Islam with English subtitle. Then He mentions some of the #marriages that are the most blessed are those that the least amount of wealth is used least extravagance. When we have marriages we are taught to have a simple marriage why because it is an act of worship from hadith.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “We must make sure that we do not engage in earning the anger of Allah. Marriage is half of your Eman according to one of the narrations, the walima or that party is a celebration of half of your Eman if you are celebrating half of your Eman by allowing women to come into the gathering who are not even dressed properly or the bride herself is half naked and the groom was to sit with the females then you are celebrating half of your Iman by pleasing satan; your marriage won’t work it will not work I guarantee that.”
Shaykah Assim Al Hakeem mentions two important #dua (#supplication) at wedding night from hadith: Placing your hands on your wife’s head and praying for her Allaahumma innee as’aluka min khairiha wa khairi maa jabaltaha ‘alaihi wa a’oodhubika min sharriha wa sharri maa jabaltaha ‘alaihi( “O Allaah, I ask You for the good in her and the good with which You have created her, and I seek refuge in You from the evil in her and the evil with which You have created her.” )
What to say at the time of making #Love When a Muslim man is about to enter his #wife, he should always say first: Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaan, wa jannib ash-shaitaan maa razaqtanna [In the name of Allah, O Allah, keep us away from the devil, and keep the devil away from that which You may grant us (ie. offspring).] About this, the Prophet said: “After that, if Allah decrees that they will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child”.
In this lectue #MuftiMenk explains how it is important to be prepared for the #hereafter with English subtitle. He mentions, “Why did Allah make you and why did he make me it’s important for us to know this because without knowing it we will never be able to prepare for the #afterlife”?
Mufti Menk quotes in this lecture, “How do I prepare for the afterlife by making sure that the acts of worship I am engaging in are the ones that are correct upright and taught by the messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam”.
#MuftiMenk highlights we all know that when you do good there is good that you will reap. The evil effects of sin in the lives of the believers that is full of #depression a life that is filled with #sadness a life that is filled with #anxiety and #stress. Mufti Menk reminds us remember in Islam we are taught more important than the figure is the blessing of the Almighty in this lecture.
Mufti Menk Quotes in this lecture, “The doors of repentance are open always for as long as it doesn’t get to the end we are still living; we’re still breathing we haven’t yet got to sakrat; we haven’t yet got to Gargara meaning the point of death of each one of us and the world is not yet come to an end. So we can turn back to Allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala, so remember the more we become conscious of Allah the less we will fear the rest and the less we are conscious of Allah the more we begin to fear the rest”.
#MuftiMenk makes mention of #marriage has been made very easy in Islam when he giving advice on marriage to you people at time of officiation of a #Nikah in this lecture with English subtitle. He adds that there is a proposal from one side and acceptance from the other in the presence of the representatives as well as the witnesses and at the same time mention is made of the gift that is given from the #groom to the #bride that is known as #mahr something very simple the officiating a nika does not take more than two minutes.
Mufti Menk Quotes in the lectue “Remember one thing every time you or anyone else makes marriage difficult for your children or for anyone else to get married you are sinful the idea and the planning and the divine wisdom of allah subhanahu wa’ta’ala dictates that you facilitate a Nika (Marriage)”.
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