Be careful the way you use your mouths with your wives, be careful. #Hijab is to lower your gaze, to dress with clothing that is not tight. It’s your (#muslimmale) duty you cannot show limbs and organs thinking, hey I’m a man, no no no; make sure you are dressed. With loose clothing and make sure that the material is good and so on. It’s not just for the women. In fact, when Allah speaks of lowering the gaze and hijab, he speaks about the men first in Surat an Nur, tell the believing males first to lower their gazes and to protect their private parts.
#MuftiMenk urges to make a change now, go back to allah and ask Allah subhana allah talas goodness, has the time not come for your hearts to soften, come on you gotta say yes, yeah Allah, my heart; the time has come, my hearts are softened and Alhamdulillah I turn to you yeah Aallah, he mentioned the following the verse from the Quran.
“Has the time not come for those who have believed that their hearts should become humbly submissive at the remembrance of Allah and what has come down of the truth? And let them not be like those who were given the Scripture before, and a long period passed over them, so their hearts hardened; and many of them are defiantly disobedient”. (Surah al-Hadid 57:16)
We are human, we do falter, we do fall but at the same time turn back to Allah, He is merciful. He will forgive you but don’t plan to commit the sin again.